WELCOME

Edit: I WAS CURED AFTER 22 YEARS! I had a vestibulectomy Dec. 2016. The recovery was easier for me than having sex ever was. It took about 5 weeks. I have included my recovery photos. Look for the blogpost "I'm Cured!" and "My Vestibulectomy".

I’m a great woman with a pissed-off vulva. I have “primary vestibulitis." Most people are uncomfortable discussing their genital pain in public. My hope is that my obsession to find help for myself will make your experience shorter, easier, and less painful. P.S. Recently "vestibulitis" has been renamed to "vestibulodynia."


Anatomy of the Clitoris

Notice that even if you can't take direct clitoral touch, you can still get clitoral stimulation because the clitoris extends quite a lot on each side, located between the labia majora and minora.

A fun little video that's a drawing. Watch first to get oriented before...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YhoSUoZ_uJ0

A cadaver video that shows the same area (it's not super-gross given it is a cadaver):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5Y7do2z-Dw



I Use This To Organize My Pills: A Programmable Medication Dispenser





This "spaceship" is how I organize my meds. It reminds when to take them with a beep that goes off at the times I program. The pills disk rotates so that it brings only the meds to take during one dose into the open slot. I take a lot of pills and I used to mis-medicate. I got this and am much more consistent. It is easy to program. It accommodates one to many doses per day. You can get it at epill.com and it comes in a variety of sizes. It is FANTASTIC.

Update November 26, 2015
After 9 years of good use, some of the plastic has broken and I am about to replace it. I got it originally as a Christmas gift from Dad. Now I know how much it cost: $385. Wow. He did a lot of research and concluded this to be the best. There are other machines that look like this that cost $70. I don't know about their durability. This one has done me well.

The company has now come out with a newer "Plus" version. The above model is known as the "XL" and is still sold. I am trying to figure out which to buy.